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Frames That Linger's avatar

This was gentle, wise, and deeply compassionate. I loved the honesty of admitting that silence is not always indifference—sometimes it is reverence, reflection, or simply having nothing to add because the writing already said enough. “Some pains and troubles are meant to be held in your hands and transmuted into your heart” was especially beautiful. You balanced empathy with responsibility so well: support can be offered, but healing still belongs to the person living it. A tender reminder that presence itself can be meaningful, even without words. 🤍

Barbara's avatar

Such a lovely comment, thank you!

Jenny Lynn's avatar

I love this.

Barbara's avatar

Thank you for taking the time to read this, Jenny. I appreciate it.

Jenny Lynn's avatar

You are welcome, dear Barbara.

Zoya Azeem's avatar

This post screams emotional intelligence. I loved reading every word. You’ve worded everything in such a gentle and wise manner. I admire the compassion so much!! 🩷

Barbara's avatar

Thank you, Zoya, for your kind words!

Nonye's avatar

such an amazing read!

Barbara's avatar

Thank you, Nonye!

Semal's avatar

Such an Amazing read @barbara I am glad to connect with you

Barbara's avatar

Thank you! :)

Silent Words with Cynthia Wong's avatar

Hi Barbara! Thank you for this message to your community. I think it is nice to know where you coming from. I do think the meaningful comments land differently than generic ones.

Barbara's avatar

Hello Cynthia, thank you. This post was a compassionate urge from a talker! :) Hopefully it reaches those who are meant to

Silent Words with Cynthia Wong's avatar

Hi Barbara! Oh, I see. It will be for people who want to hear:) Wanted to say hello and also thank you for reading and supporting my work!

Barbara's avatar

You are welcome! You seem very generous in supporting other writers. :) It takes effort and time.

Silent Words with Cynthia Wong's avatar

I appreciate you noticing that! I try to do my part for the community. It takes us all alot of time to write so I try to read from that vantage point.

Lilitu Rodac | Cult Survivor's avatar

Thank you for this 💛

Barbara's avatar

Welcome! Thank you for reading :)